Structure and function of central synapses are profoundly influenced by experience during developmental sensitive periods. Sensory synapses, which are the indispensable interface for the developing brain to interact with its environment, are particularly plastic. In the auditory system, moderate forms of unilateral hearing loss during development are prevalent but the pre‐ and postsynaptic modifications that occur when hearing symmetry is perturbed are not well understood. We investigated this issue by performing experiments at the large calyx of Held synapse. Principal neurons of the medial nucleus of the trapezoid body (MNTB) are innervated by calyx of Held terminals that originate from the axons of globular bushy cells located in the contralateral ventral cochlear nucleus. We compared populations of synapses in the same animal that were either sound‐deprived (SD) or sound‐experienced (SE) after unilateral conductive hearing loss (CHL). Middle ear ossicles were removed one week prior to hearing onset (∼P12) and morphological and electrophysiological approaches were applied to auditory brainstem slices taken from these mice at P17–19. Calyces in the SD and SE MNTB acquired their mature digitated morphology but these were structurally more complex than those in normal hearing mice. This was accompanied by bilateral decreases in initial EPSC amplitude and synaptic conductance despite the CHL being unilateral. During high‐frequency stimulation, some SD synapses displayed short‐term depression whereas others displayed short‐term facilitation followed by slow depression similar to the heterogeneities observed in normal hearing mice. However SE synapses predominantly displayed short‐term facilitation followed by slow depression which could be explained in part by the decrease in release probability. Furthermore, the excitability of principal cells in the SD MNTB had increased significantly. Despite these unilateral changes in short‐term plasticity and excitability, heterogeneities in the spiking fidelity among the population of both SD and SE synapses showed similar continuums to those in normal hearing mice. Our study suggests preservations in the heterogeneity in spiking fidelity via synaptic remodeling ensures symmetric functional stability which is likely important for retaining the capability to maximally code sound localization cues despite moderate asymmetries in hearing experience. This article is protected by copyright. All rights reserved